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Lilli Hymowitz, 17-year old home schooler from Manhattan, sounds like many teenage girls when asked what’s most important to her: “My family, for sure, always. My horses, riding. My friends, for sure, always. I have a few best friends, my boyfriend now. Hmm what else? Photography I love, for sure. And that’s, like, mostly it.”
Naturally, she’s interested in social media: “This whole social media platform is, like, weirdly important to me,” but she continues, “I really like it [and] how it’s building things in my real life, but I never want to like it to the point where I get too caught up in it.”
It’s easy to get caught up in social media when you have a lot of followers. But Lilli’s less interested in her online followers compared to her real-life experiences and close circle of friends. “My friends will be like, ‘Lilli, you need to post less, you’re losing followers.’ I’m like, honestly, I don’t care; if I lose followers, I lose followers…. I don’t try and fake anything.”
Her honesty translates into her photographs that capture candid moments hanging out with friends in the city, behind-the-scenes moments at equestrian competitions, and intimate glimpses into her family life. She attributes her candor to a life-changing read of Eckhart Tolle’s The Power of Now. “I was, like, really always controlling, wanting to control every situation around me, and like, hated change and things changing. I just wasn’t in a good place.” For Lilli, changing her philosophy on life “just changed everything.” Her take-it-or-leave-it attitude towards appeasing her followers reflects her attitude towards new age thinking: “I never tried to push it on anyone…. If it works, it works, and if it doesn’t, you don’t read it.”
Ultimately Lilli’s living her own life, not for approval from others, and not to project a certain image. She’s doing what she loves, with the people who matter most to her, in a city that’s like no other. When she describes those she admires most as, “People who speak their mind and say their opinions and aren’t afraid of what other people are gonna think or bully them,” she could be describing her own defining characteristic as well — confidence. But she’s the first to admit she’s still finding her way: “I'm still young and growing up and trying to figure myself and my passions out day by day.”
Photography and footage by Lilli Hymowitz
Music by Insightful
Produced by VSCO